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The Hiatus Challenge

Hi Everyone!  As you know, I've been writing on this blog for seven years.  And, as I think happens with a lot of people who start blogs, I thought I would get a lot of other projects done in that time, too. Then I thought, when Chance started school I would have more time to do other writing. However, in the two years he's been in school I really haven't gotten much done and that's two whole years!  I think one of the problems with blogs is that when you're a writer you generally feel compelled to write; it's like a burning itch - especially if you haven't written in a while - and you just need to get something out onto the page.  And what happens with a blog is you start feeling that way and you dash off a post and you feel a little better (even if the quality isn't very good) and the desire wanes.  (Yes, writing is like an addiction.)  That all kind of eats away at your energy for what else you might write, besides the time that writing a blog takes. 

So I've decided to take a hiatus from here for a few months. I've just started a novel and I want to concentrate on just that for a while.  This is really a giant experiment to see if I can get through writing a whole book.  And also to see what happens when I lighten up my tendency to overschedule myself!  Ha ha.  I know I have a tendency of getting very committed and I'm also constantly volunteering to help everyone else.  (Let's face it, I'm so busy I've been barely blogging as it is.)  I want to see what it's like to not feel like I HAVE to post, you know what I mean?  I think it's time I do something for me, and something that's bigger and harder.  I'm also reducing the hours I volunteer at school this year (or I'm gonna try) because I was there A LOT the last two years (besides picking up Chance for lunch, which we're changing this year).  I think having fewer commitments will force me to spend time writing.

And I've just announced here that I'm working on a book so feel free to pour on the pressure!  I need it!   

It took a long time before I was ready to let go of this blog.  I'm not planning on shutting it down permanently; I just need to take a break.  I'll still be on email and Facebook so you can find me there, and I'll still be doing Cougar Beat because that's pictures instead of writing.  I may still blog an update now and then, but no promises.

I'll see you in a few months.  Love you all!             - the weirdgirl 


Jay Noel

I hope you have a very productive hiatus. Let me know if you need anything!

the weirdgirl

Thanks Jay!


So reading between the lines with that last post about what you're reading and the hot bods on Cougar Beat, I guess we have a new porn writer on our hands?


I hope you're rocking the hiatus with some hardcore writing. As a bookseller, take it from me when I tell you softcore porn is selling hard, so... ;)

I appreciate that you're on here calling it like it is. I just simply stop writing and think, "Meh..."


As somebody who has been blogging since 2006 I completely understand. None the less you will be missed and I hope to hear from you sooner rather than later. Good luck with the novel


I completely understand. Sometimes you have to take a break from blogging (I did, for the most part, while on Match.com).

Best wishes with your novel!


Hope it's going well.

A Vapid Blonde

I happen to be stopping in to a few of my old haunts. Saying Hi. Saying I am alive. And so are you...way more alive than I am. High Five!

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